With friends comes conflict ? Well not for me ! You would rarely see me arguing with any of my friends. I don't like conflict or petty drama. When I was 13 I used to fight with my friends over stupid little things but when you get to a certain time in your life, you start to realise that there's more important things to deal with than fighting with friends. I know a lot of girls who just love to start stupid arguments over nothing. Please don't be that person.
Your friends shouldn't be your enemy. If you see that you keep on fighting with your so called friend over stupid sh*t then drop that friend. That isn't a healthy friendship.Don't be friends with someone who talks to others about you behind your back. Why waste your time arguing and getting your blood pressure up over something dumb.
Stay away from people who always seem to attract drama wherever they go. Those people will end up dragging you into to their mischief if you aren't careful. When you aren't looking that person might even betray you. Even if that person is a good person to you , you got to wonder when she's involved in all that drama in the first place.
If you have a problem with your friend then just tell them. Don't keep what's bothering you under wraps. It will just get worse and you'll just get more angry. Whenever I have a problem with my friend I would tell her right there and then. I'm not going to keep my mouth shut if she did something disrespectful or mean.
Don't jump into other people's drama. If you see both your friends fighting please don't get in the middle of that. That's their drama. It will be seen as you taking sides of you do butt in.Let them figure it out themselves.
If you have had a bad fight with your friend and it looks like you can't fix it then take a little break from each other. Take time to breathe and think about the situation. Try come up with a compromise. Talk to someone wise and get their point of view on your situation. Then talk to your friend privately and try to mend your friendship and please try your best to not get other people involved as it causes more conflict.
These are my guidelines of how I stay out of drama.
Stay Blessed
Poseidon's Child
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