Sunday, 2 October 2016

Taking Someone's Kindness For Granted


I'm the type person who is kind to everyone even if they aren't kind to me.I'm a selfless person most of the time and growing up I'm noticing that it can be a negative thing sometimes. I go out of my way for people and they don't do the same for me. I try to help people as much as I can but sometimes I feel under appreciated. I'm not asking to be praised but I would like some appreciation. If someone asks me for a favour I will do it out of the kindness of my heart. 

I always put 100% in everything I do. I'm now beginning to understand why kind people turn bitter. I would do something for a person and then when I ask for a small favour it's too much of an inconvenience for them.

I'm sorry ? I took time out of my life to do you a huge favour and you turn around to me and say your too busy. Guys I don't ask for favours a lot and I don't expect people to give me a favour back. When you continuously go out of your way to help people and they turn around to you and say that they can't help you it really makes me wonder what kind of person they are. 

When people disappointed me I always gave them a chance to redeem themselves. I'm not the kind of person to hold a grudge. This led to a lot of sadness. 

There are people out there that take kind people for granted. They ask you for huge favours but turn their backs on you when you need them. Those people aren't around to benefit you. They are around for their own benefits. I've learnt to let those people go. 

Those people only put a negative impact in your life. Someone will come around and appreciate what you have done. The people that disappointed you will wish that they never did.Guys it's not nice to do that to people. Don't take advantage of people. If you ask someone for a favour don't turn your back on them when they need you. That's not being a true friend.

Happiness is priceless, make sure you don't take yours for granted.

Stay Blessed

Poseidon's Child x

2 comments :

  1. I should refer you to a nook called Riding the Red Dragon. It would help you a lot about giving and how to view it. Also you see learn to accept people around you for who they are. Some so called friends could be nice to us and yet we see what they do to others and sometimes we assume they are not that bad because they haven't been nasty to us. A mean person is a mean person doesn't matter if they haven't been mean to you. So if you don't want to be on the receiving end of their meanness the minute they show you who they are and it gives you the chills know that's them. If you decide to stay friends do so knowing you can never count on them. Stay loving, kind and giving. The world needs more of you and that spirit

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    1. Yeah you're very right. I'll have a read of that book. Thanks for the suggestion !

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