Sunday, 7 August 2016

You don't need everyone's approval first




It frustrates me when I see people not being able to make decisions for themselves.

These days people like to make an impression on other people. These people are too afraid to choose for themselves.What they don't see is that seeking the need of approval kills your freedom.

Every time you have to make a decision you have to quickly run and get someones opinion. When that person doesn't agree with you,you change your life to suit them. That is not freedom.

People hold back their opinions and thoughts because they want someone to like them or they think people won't agree with what they think. They go on with life trying to please everyone around them accept themselves.

I see people having anxiety over people not liking that they chose to go to work than hanging out with their friends and going out to a popular party.That's ridiculous ! Why create stress and immense anxiety over something silly ?

Seeking approval lowers your performance level. You should be able to do things on your own without looking for someone to help you.

Seeking approval makes you turn down great opportunities because the person who you are seeking the approval from don't agree with the choice you want to make.

Everyone needs to grow and take on challenges and decisions. You should be able to make your own choices. If someone doesn't like the choices you are making then tough.You are the master of your own life.Everyone doesn't have to like you.

You need to accept yourself.You need to accept that your decisions are great.No one knows you better than yourself.

You don't need everyone's approval first.

Stay blessed

Poseidon's Child x 




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