Loosing friends

Guys it's May ! Meaning it's summer aka Exam season. For those doing exams it's one of the most stressful times in their lives. It's also the time where people start losing their friends due to silly little fights.

Exams aren't the end of the world. They will never define you as a person or define what you will do exactly in life. There are different opportunities out there.

To be honest there's people around exam time that will irritate the heck out of you. Don't take your anger out on them. Just walk away if you want to say something hurtful.

There's time where I just want to be left alone.It's good to have time alone to gather your thoughts.

When your friend comes around you and starts talking to you. Just politely tell them that you need some space instead of lashing out on them.

If your friend lashes out on you because he/she is stressed then just take a step back. Give them some space and understand that , that person needs to be left alone.

Don't go around spitting fire at everyone over silly little things. Your friends will eventually get angry and there will be a major fight.Be considerate of others.You aren't the only one going through exams.

Exams aren't the end of the world.

Chill...

Stay blessed 

Poseidon's Child 

Priority

In life you sometimes will just have to accept the fact that not everyone will care about you. You will not be everyone's main priority.

Don't force yourself on someone. I know how this all goes. You put up with all their crap, hoping that one of these days they will actually care. They make up accuses and you give in because you care about them.

Everyone tells you that, that person is a lier and they don't care about care about you but you choose to ignore them because you think you know better.Inside you are hoping that person will change.

You can't change a person no matter hard you try. I've realized the best thing to do is listen to those who care about you.

Leave that person.

No point in sitting there hurting. Everyone deserves the best in a friendship and a relationship.Maybe one day they will realise what they have lost.

That weight on your shoulders will be gone and you will be able to live life knowing you did the best that you could.

You may not be that persons priority but you'll find someone who will make you their priority.

Only time will tell.

Stay Blessed

Poseidon's Child x

Fear of change

I have never met a person who doesn't have a fear. Having a fear is totally normal. Fear of change is something I had to overcome pretty quick from a young age. I actually don't mind change now. But for some people it could be a challenge.

My mother was a single mom for a little while and because of that I moved school about seven times. At the beginning I used to hate it because I was shy and I found it hard to make friends. I also had to leave my friends behind. After the third time of moving schools I kinda got used to it.

I realised that there was nothing to be afraid of. I picked myself up and boosted my confidence level from 0-100. Change it Good ! I learned so many lessons good and bad. I gained confidence. I learned how to communicate with different types of people.

Just go with the flow ! If something has changed don't panic because everything happens for a reason. It allows you to experience different things in life.

Change makes you more open minded. If things were the same all the time then life will be boring. If you are a stubborn person then just suck it up and get on with life. There's no need to run from Change.Like me you will realize the benefits of change when you look back.

Change is good

Stay blessed 

Poseidon's Child x 

How to live a drama free life

With friends comes conflict ? Well not for me ! You would rarely see me arguing with any of my friends. I don't like conflict or petty drama. When I was 13 I used to fight with my friends over stupid little things but when you get to a certain time in your life, you start to realise that there's more important things  to deal with than fighting with friends. I know a lot of girls who just love to start stupid arguments over nothing. Please don't be that person.

Your friends shouldn't be your enemy. If you see that you keep on fighting with your so called friend over stupid sh*t then drop that friend. That isn't a healthy friendship.Don't be friends with someone who talks to others about you behind your back. Why waste your time arguing and getting your blood pressure up over something dumb.

Stay away from people who always seem to attract drama wherever they go. Those people will end up dragging you into to their mischief if you aren't careful. When you aren't looking that person might even betray you. Even if that person is a good person to you , you got to wonder when she's involved in all that drama in the first place.

If you have a problem with your friend then just tell them. Don't keep what's bothering you under wraps. It will just get worse and you'll just get more angry. Whenever I have a problem with my friend I would tell her right there and then. I'm not going to keep my mouth shut if she did something disrespectful or mean.

Don't jump into other people's drama. If you see both your friends fighting please don't get in the middle of that. That's their drama. It will be seen as you taking sides of you do butt in.Let them figure it out themselves.

If you have had a bad fight with your friend and it looks like you can't fix it then take a little break from each other. Take time to breathe and think about the situation. Try come up with a compromise. Talk to someone wise and get their point of view on your situation. Then talk to your friend privately and try to mend your friendship and please try your best to not get other people involved as it causes more conflict.

These are my guidelines of how I stay out of drama.

Stay Blessed

Poseidon's Child

How to survive Hay fever

To all my Hay fever sufferers out here ! I'm going to tell you guys how I survive during the spring/summer months with Hay fever.

I have 7 simple steps for you..

Step 1
Monitor the Pollen forecast everyday. Stay inside if possible when the Pollen count is too high.

Step 2
Keep Windows closed every morning and evening.

Step 3
Avoid trips to rural areas and forests as that is where most of the allergens are.

Step 4
Change your clothes when you enter the house immediately to avoid the spread of Pollen.

Step 5
Purchase an air filter if suffering indoors.

Step 6
Don't let pets get too close to your face.

Step 7
Take Hay fever tablets.

I hope these steps help you guys. Hay fever can be a pain in the Butt sometimes.

Stay Blessed

Poseidon's child x

You are strong

When times are tough, you just need to keep going. When you feel like the walls are closing in and everything is against you, just think of the things you have. When people are continuously putting you down, ignore them and do what you think is right.

In life we will all come across obstacles.Times will get tough.Sometimes you will feel like crying and giving up but don't. YOU ARE STRONG.You will get through it.Look at the obstacles you have already tackled.You are not weak.You will overcome these obstacles and you will be VICTORIOUS. 

Just remember that you won't be miserable forever. There is a light under that tunnel.Bad days come and go.Just put your head down and get on with it.Life is too short. Strive for greatness.

Stay blessed

Poseidon's child x 

Anxiety

Not a lot of people know this about me but I suffer from extreme Anxiety.The type of anxiety where I hate social interaction,I hate being around huge crowds of people,I can't cope with conflict and I'd rather die than be in a room full of people I don't know. Most people are shocked by this because they see me as outgoing and confident but deep down I'm venerable.

Anxiety is something a lot of people deal with. I'm going to share with you how I deal with my Anxiety.

1. Take a deep breath
This has worked for me many times when I've been at social functions and I feel very anxious.

2. Take a time out
If it's too much for you, you need to leave the situation for a bit until you calm down.

3. Meditate
This is my go to ! I love meditation.Burn a candle and chill. It's extremely calming and it helps you clear your mind.

4. Exercise
Whenever I'm feeling anxious I got for a very long run. Sometimes it's good to be by yourself and you also get a good body after it !

5. Talk to someone
Let all your emotions out.No point in going through it by yourself because it will make things worse. You'll feel much better when you do.

6. Scream
Yes SCREAM ! This is a good way to let everything go. Screaming is great and also calming.

7. Do what you love
Paint, play basketball, play the drums ! Do something that makes you smile.

Anxiety shouldn't stop you from doing what you love. I love sports which involves social interaction but it doesn't stop me from playing sports. All you need to do is learn how to cope and get on with life. If you keep hiding yourself you'll never achieve what you want to achieve.You will also blame yourself when opportunities go by you. Go out there and attack the world with the gifts God gave you.
 

Stay blessed

Poseidon's Child x